Watching my husband become a dad and now almost 4 years into it, enhance his role and job of that with each day that passes and each kid that comes into our lives and calls him "dad" has honestly been one of the greatest joys. When you meet someone at 19 years old, you obviously have no idea what kind of father they will be....but after getting to know Jimmy a bit, from the very beginning I had no doubt he would take on the role of fatherhood someday quite well. And boy has he.
I have loved watching him learn all of the more technical duties fatherhood brings - you know, how to change a diaper, calm a crying baby, calm a crying mama (SO true!), make a bottle, wash the bottle, wash pump parts, pack pump parts, pack diaper bags, and the list could go on and on. But I have loved even more watching him grow emotionally as a person and dad with our two little ones. Watching him hold each of them for the first time and slowly but surely fall in love all over again with our adorable little humans that were entrusted to us. He has taken on the role of disciplinarian more than I have (let's be honest, it might be surprising, but I'm a complete softie) but knows just when he needs to bring on one of his famous playlists and just dance in the family room. His hugs can fix boo-boos and his jokes can turn crying into laughter. As Charlie is about ready to turn 4, it's even more fun to watch Jimmy interact with him - teaching him how to throw a ball, swing a bat, swing a golf club, swim, throw a football, kick a soccer ball, etc. These were the things that Jimmy dreamed about since when we found out Charlie was a boy - so it's even more fun for me to watch him, as I know he's look forward to this for so long! And miss Maddie. Well, to say Jimmy was terrified when we found out Maddie was a girl is an understatement. With four brothers, he told me he knew nothing about girls and was convinced she was going to look exactly like him, be 6 ft 5 in tall and never find a boyfriend (this was all in the sonogram room!!!). Luckily for all of us, she might have a tall stature, but she's gorgeous and even more fun - she's got him completely wrapped around her finger. He says he's terrified to have another girl (as we are not finding out what #3 is - only a few more weeks until we know!) mainly because of the attitude that Maddie already gives us all and her strong personality...but I think the truth is, he's not quite sure just how another sweet girl can win over his heart. Because boy has she.
No matter what though, Jimmy, in my eyes, is just the greatest dad. He's just what our family needs and knows what to do to keep us all running. And we love this guy so much!
Jimmy with Charlie and Maddie in the hospital. Seems hard to believe there is going to be a third one of these pictures in just a few weeks!!! (and no, his style doesn't change my friends - guessing he'll have a backwards hat on in #3 as well!)
While Jimmy is our immediate little family's shining star of a dad, Jimmy wouldn't be Jimmy without his own dad! Red Carter is one of a kind and helped his wife to raise five wonderful boys that have grown into five amazing men. I love hearing stories about Red when they were little and would go to the softball park to watch him play and then how he was their coach when they were older. While I didn't know him when he was just a "dad", his role as "Pops" in the Carter family is one that he doesn't take lightly. With 11 grandkids now, he stays busy watching them play and throwing his own dance parties at his house for the kids. He encourages them and all of us through his faith and love for God and his family. We are so very thankful for this guy!
And then there is my dad. Oh man. Too many things to say about this guy. The first thing to say is that I'm so glad he's a fighter. Looking back at this past year or so and his several battles with skin cancer and the grueling, unsightly treatments he went through with that, as well as find out he had aggressive prostate cancer and immediately knowing he just wanted to eliminate it because that was the best chance of survival, even with some of the not-so-fun things that could happen afterwords. I'm so glad that he's strong and has a great attitude towards everything. Never feeling sorry for himself and never letting anything stop him. He's amazing and the most fun dad and Papa ever. Tell him about a project you're thinking about? Now that he's retired, he'll likely show up at your house the next Monday with a game plan and supplies in hand (so watch out what you wish for!). He's amazing and we love him so so much!! (not to mention he has welcomed all 4.5 of us with open arms into his house the last week and gotten up with Charlie pretty much every morning at 5:15AM to eat Rice Krispies with him....this guy!)
Happy Father's day to these three amazing men!!!!! Life is so much better with you all in it!
Have I mentioned between Jimmy and I's family we have a TON of summer birthdays!!! Technically, depending on when you say summer actually started- our niece Kenlie and SIL, Shellie, probably kicked this off- they celebrated in May!! Kenlie had an amazing Paris party with her friends that Shellie threw and then Shellie turned the big 4-0 that we got to celebrate with her the Sunday before Memorial Day!
Then in June we have my mom (June 14), Maddie (July 4), Mike, one of Jimmy's brothers (July 9), baby carter #3 (due July 21 but actually date TBD), my dad (July 27), Charlie (July 31), Jimmy's dad (August 3), another brother, Tim (August 7), our new BIL, Casey (August 9), SIL, Lindsay (August 11), Jimmy's parents anniversary (August 23), our niece, Libbie (August 26) and then me (August 28).
That's a whole lot of birthday-ing from mid-May until the end of August right?!? But as my own is in August, I'm a fan of summer birthdays- next July will be nuts too (and likely every July to come) with our 3 kiddos all having birthdays!
Anyways, last year, my parents, sister and I were in London for my mom's 60th birthday- this year we are staying at her house for the week while the cabinets at ours get painted. So after kids were in bed (and my mom!), I had some fun hunting through old photos and snapping pictures on the wall of my mom, dad and our family and a few of her friends and family through the years. I shared these on Facebook, but thought they were too fun not to share on my blog! I absolutely love looking at ones of my parents pre-kids too- anyone else? There are a few I found sprinkled in!!!!
So happy birthday, mom and looking forward to another fun year of adventure - you added another son to the family when Lyndsay got married a few weeks ago and adding another grandkid- so this next year is only going to get more exciting!
Ok catch up starts NOW. Here we go on a blog post rewind of the summer.
After our trip to Mexico, I had two weeks at home (which included the only weekend at home with a fun trip to Wichita) and then it was time to go away again. This time instead of to Mexico, it was to London for work. Last March, when I was pregnant with Maddie, I made my first trip to London for work and had a grand time. (You can read about my time there here: day 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5). So this time, I decided that it would be SUPER fun if my mom, dad and sister tagged along. Don't worry - you can already guess that I was NOT that detailed of keeping track of our every move this time as I was last time with a post each day. Just one post. Two months later. Such is life.
We had a big year for our family - my dad had just retired and my mom turned 60 - so why not all go to Europe to celebrate!? And we did just that!!!
On June 13, we headed to Dallas then to London overnight. We flew American Airlines this time (I flew British Airways last time and it was amazing) and yeah, the airplane was not so great...but we lived through the long flight and when we landed in London...my mom was 60 years old!!!
My dad was already asleep at the KC airport
My seat partner on the way to London!
Sister and mom ready to go to London!
When we finally got to our flat, it was about 3PM. And by that point, even though we all got terrible sleep, it would have been silly to try to go to sleep. So we went exploring. Walked down to my office, went to the London Bridge, I showed them the tube station closest to our flat and got them some tube passes. Then we had dinner to celebrate the birthday girl!!!!
And then I got this picture with the caption from Jimmy:
"Pot roast (Maddie's nickname" eating pot roast at Grana's".
Pretty cute, huh?!
Since we were all pooped, we went to bed early and I was up early the next morning and had a nice little commute to work through some pretty amazing streets.
I loved how quiet it was in the morning by our apartment.
And then you emerge on a main street and see the hustle and bustle that London really is.
My parents and sister had a good day and bought the London Pass and were off to see lots of sights. When I got home after a long day at work, I was ready to go somewhere, but they were all pooped. I did convince my dad to go on the Jack the Ripper London Walk. This was my first time going on a London Walk and it was great!!! It was only 10 GBP and there was an awesome tour guide that took us all around the city. Such awesome history and a fun way to enjoy the time after work!! Glad my dad came with me for sure!!!
The second night, I'm pretty sure was when we went to dinner by Trafalgar Square area. It was a mess because I told my parents I would meet them outside of a tube stop around there...I really went there to go to the UK baby store in search of a new cord for my pump. Yep, I was pumping and was stuck with batteries. Jimmy sent me to the "Buy buy baby" of the UK (called Mothercare) and of course they had no cord...but it was fun to go to a store like that there. I ended up buying a manual pump in hopes that might be easier. OMG no, not at all. So I sucked it up and suffered through battery pumping the whole time.
But after that debacle, I finally found my family and we searched high and low for a restaurant that one of my co-workers recommended. And then decided we didn't want to go there.
We were starving at that point and went to this delicious Italian place.
One thing to note about London that I seem to forget. The service there is SO different than the US. In my mind, they are SOOOO slow. But really I think they just are like that and want you to enjoy dinner. Oh and they hate ice. It's weird.
Wednesday night, my family came in for lunch at my office. And Mary got our picture on the balcony, which overlooks the Thames River and has an awesome view of the Tower Bridge!
That night, they hosted beers on the balcony because it was SO nice in London that week and my family was there along with another one of my KC co-workers and her husband and 3 kids. We had fun and I had a few beers and was feeling very happy when it was time to leave!
We had planned on taking the boat to Greenwich, but on our way to the boat, we decided to just take the tube to Canary Wharf instead.
We did have some great views during the walk from my office to the tube station!
We made it to Canary Wharf via the tube and did our usual "we cannot make a decision on where to eat for dinner" (right, family!?) until we all got so hungry we got mad!! Ha!
After making our way through a race that was going on, we ended up at Wahaca, which was a DELICIOUS Mexican restaurant (not tex-mex for sure!). They have mutliple chains/locations and one was actually under construction right by our flat that we walked by like a ton of times, so I'm glad we got to try it. I thought it was awesome!
Then we took some pictures of Canary Wharf!
On Thursday, my sister and dad took a train to Windsor Castle, outside of London. I was so jealous because I wanted to go there so bad!!! They said it was amazing and so fun to get out of the city. I bet - next time, I'm doing it!! They also did a ton of stuff during the days with their London Pass. They were to the Tower of London, the Tower Bridge tour, went to Kensington Palace, did the London Eye, saw Big Ben, took a boat tour and the list goes on. I'm sure they had fun while I was at work!! So glad they did!!
We were all pooped knew that Friday morning would come early early! We booked the Eurostar train to Paris earlier in the week. My dad and sister had mentioned wanting to go...it wasn't super cheap at all, but cheaper then another plane trip over, so my mom and dad bought us tickets and we were off on the 5:30AM train.
The whole thing was so cool and crazy! The train station was organized just like an airport is to scan your luggage, take your ticket and go through security. The train was so nice!!! It goes under the ocean to from London to Paris - which is nuts. But in about two hours, we had another stamp on our passports and were in France. So crazy!
Paris is SO different than London for sure - right off the bat the language barrier for sure. Since we knew we just had that day and wanted to see all the big sites...we bought four tickets for a bus tour that picked us up right outside of the train station. Which was awesome because we didn't have to learn their train or bus system and it went right to all the main sites.
First stop was Notre Dame, which was amazing. We might have cut in line (on accident!) to get into it, but it was amazing. You could light candles for family too - which was really neat. Lots of prayer and reflection in an amazing building. We went to a fun little cafe nearby for lunch and had a great lunch - with CREPES of course!! They were SOOO good.
After lunch, we got back on the bus and made our way over to the Eiffel Tower. It was SO big and so awesome. Unfortunately, the line to go up it was SOOO long and we still wanted to see a few more things in more detail before we had to be back to the train station. So we just walked around and looked and it and then got back on the bus - but I made us take some family pictures (my sister has them!)
We did take a trip back around on the bus (which went surprisingly slow because there is crazy traffic in Paris!!) and went back to walk through the Louvre area (didn't go in that either) and then back to buy some pretty neat art from the stands nearby the river.
And we laughed and had fun!
FINALLY - we got some macaroons, but my poor sister wanted some gelato SO bad and we couldn't find any by the train station as well. I felt so bad!
Then we had dinner by the station and hung out a little bit before it was time to get loaded in the train again and head back to London. We didn't get back to London until like 11:30 or so...so we were pooped!! And our flight back to the States left at 7:30AM, so we had an early car coming to pick us up. But we made the best of our day in Paris. And had a good time eating a bunch of sweets on our way back to London.
In the mean time, while I was gone all week - Jimmy and the kids were having some fun!! I was getting lots of pictures from day care (which was awesome) and from Jimmy. The worst though (but still cute), was a video that Jimmy sent to me of Charlie singing a song for me and then asking where I was at the end. Poor, sweet boy!!! You must watch this:
But Jimmy did great and so did the kids. Jimmy is a rock star for sure and didn't complain once. (when he goes out of town for work- you better believe I complain!). They had fun and we got to FaceTime a lot. The time change just kills me because I have to stay up until 11PM each night to even talk to them. But they would call me in the car on the way home from school each day and Charlie did SO much better at FaceTiming me and understanding what to do, etc. this time. It made it so much easier!!! Let's hope when I go back in January that Maddie has it figured out too!!!
What facetiming with an almost 3 year old looks like!!!
We had a LONG layover in Chicago. Which they changed on us after we booked our flights and wouldn't let us change. So annoying. But we enjoyed the last moments of time with our "original family" aka the Bruns family and ate lots of yummy Garrett's popcorn (ha!).
And laughed so hard when Jimmy sent us pictures like this! This kid!!!
Ok, so I probably missed a ton, but there's a quick recap of our fun trip. I asked my sister if she wanted to blog about it and add some pictures, etc., so we will see if she does!!! I just love London so much and all my coworkers over there. While it's quite the trip, they always make it so enjoyable and while I'm able to do all my work with them via video conference each week, it is so much easier physically being there!! So until next time, London (and maybe Paris, but I wouldn't be sad if I didn't go there again...). And the best part? I think my parents and sister enjoyed it! What a great experience to go just the four of us like we used to do growing up - but this time our first European adventure. Having them there for sure made me miss my family at home a lot less!!!
First of all – WHEW. May and June = a huge blur in my life. There are so many stinking important and life changing things that are going and that have already happened that I need to blog about. Good and bad. But let’s start with the good, m-kay?
So my parents celebrated their 35 wedding anniversary on May 31. Seriously – 35 years. That’s just crazy. I’m finally coming to grips with the fact that I will have been alive for 30 whole years this August…I cannot even imagine celebrating being married for 35!! Doesn’t seem like it’s possible. But oh it is.
My sister and I were trying to think of something a little special for them to do, but also for us to do with them. Then we realized that we had never really been to Baker University when we were old enough to remember it and for them to show them all the places that we have heard so many of the stories about them meeting 35.5 years ago! So we told my dad all the details and then told my mom we were doing something together that day.
We all met at our house and then headed to Baldwin, KS for the official Roger and Barb Bruns courtship tour. That's what I'm calling it.
It started at the Methodist church that they got married at. We made our way up to see it and then we made them pose. And then they kissed and it was really cute.
We were all watching and smiling.
The whole gang walking along!! My dad and mom telling stories and pointing out fun stuff on campus and how it has changed.
And I even knew how to set the self timer and grab a shot of all of us!
Some shots from around the campus - it was gorgeous!
Apparently this lady was invited to their wedding - crazy, right?
And this church came over piece by piece from England and was restored on campus.
Love a man and his babes.
My dad tried to get into the old gym but it was closed. He was the assistant basketball coach there (and a student..but a much older student!) while my mom took a job in the admissions office. She was actually on a date with someone else when she met my dad. They didn't know each other for very long before they got married either, but it was a pretty cute story. Then they lived in the dorm together after they got married as dorm parents!! HA!
Nana and Charlie checking out the ducks.
And then I got a glimpse at my life in about 15 years and got overwhelmed that someday my sweet boy will be all grown up and leave me for a grand adventure at college. It's hard to believe, but seeing him happy as can be prancing around campus was bittersweet.
After our fun times in Baldwin...there is NO places to eat there...so we headed to Henry T's in Lawrence to give it a try. If Jimmy and I had known that Lawrence was actually just the same distance from Baldwin as KC was...we would have just gone back to KC. But it was fun to try something new!!!
Overall, it really was a super fun day and so fun to hear all their stories again and see the buildings that they worked and lived in. It's a great campus...I had no idea that Baker University it so small either, but it sounds like a fun place to be!!
So so proud to call these two crazy cats my parents!! And what a great example they have set for my sister and I and we hope to continue that legacy of marriage in our lives as well and pass that down to our kids.
Hi! Welcome to my blog. I'm a 30 something, mom of 3 sweet babies, work full time as a finance manager, fitness lover/coach, Christian, married to my college sweetheart residing in a suburb of Kansas City. I like to blog about our family adventures, random thoughts and be as honest as I can about real life as a mom of three little kiddos 4 and under. Hope you enjoy and stick around to read!
