Remember this post?? It was titled "Wedding Breakdown #1...of many to come I'm sure". Well here is #2. And again- I'm sure it won't end here :)
With less than 5 months remaining until the big day, on the very top of my list is getting the Save the Dates out because before I know it is going to be time to send invitations. WELL- I have been diligently working on a little design of my own and got them printed by this website that's a steal when you're working with big #'s on the invite list. The first batch was ordered on 10/31. It came in the mail about 6 or 7 days later. All 250 of them in a 3 lb box. I opened them up found one tiny mistake (that I was assured only I would notice), loved them, went to Manhattan for Vanessa's bachelorette party. I get home on Sunday night and I asked Lauren what she thought of them. She says they look awesome, but is "accomdations" spelled right? UM no. No it's not. Smart Brittany. While you might think I would have freaked out, I was in a state of pure exhaustion from the weekend and new I would just reorder and no harm done just a few $$ down the drain right?
That Monday (11/9) my second order is submitted with a few $$ added for 2nd day air shipping in hopes getting them before the weekend. Printed, shipped, tracking the UPS website diligently. Yesterday they arrive (dry, thank goodness to a nice note Jim put on the porch). I get home late from work because of an unheard of 5-6PM meeting, put on sweats, grab some dinner, my laptop, a pen, and plop down on the couch to start addressing them. I start. Then I stop. The ink---it won't write on the postcards. I try another pen, no luck. I try a sharpie, no luck. I could have SWORN that I clicked the box to indicate I wanted "no UV Coating" on the back of the postcard for this reason alone. I check my order. Nope, sure didn't. However I have 250 other postcards that has incorrect spelling...but they have no UV coating on the back.
And then it happens. The breakdown begins. I start crying, slowly at first. Then hard. I call my mom- I'm sure she thinks I like got in a wreck or something by how hysterical I am (sorry mom), but by the time I blubber out what happened I think she gets it. She tells me its ok. I can order new ones. I don't want to wait another week. I want to be done. She says try another ink. I googled it- nothing writes and sticks on UV coated paper. She says use labels. I say I can't because it's not allowed. I tell her I'm going to call Erica and see what she says.
I call Erica. No answer.
I get on gchat- Jimmy is saying that labels are fine. Sending me links to wedding boards that say it's not a big deal...save the dates are informal and fun...especially if it's not a super formal wedding or save the date. Ok, yeah we have pictures of our dogs....so it isn't formal. Ok, ok, I get it. I gchat with Emily. She says it's fine. They will look awesome. It's a blessing in disguise because my hand won't hurt from writing them and it'll look awesome. Ok- she's right.
I text Molly...etiquette queen in my book. She says no one will notice. It's fine. Ok- I believe her.
Erica calls me back. I say that I'm on my way to Office Depot to get clear labels and start my design. She says that it will look awesome. And no, it's not a big deal. Erica works in PR...she knows these things. I believe her. I trust her. They will look fine. (sorry Vanessa- I would have called you, but you're GETTING MARRIED ON FRIDAY! so I know you have plenty to worry about!)
I ask Lauren. She says who cares?! Labels will be easier and guaranteed good "handwriting". Yep.
I drive to Office Depot, now more calm. Talking to my mom who continually reassures me it's ok. I walk into the store. There is no one around, some guy is cleaning the floors and as I mosey on over to the labels, the lights go off. Hmmm...is it closed? I track down the 1 of 2 workers there and ask him if they are closed. Yep- 8 minutes ago at 8:08PM but if I know what I want I can get it fast! I do. I get the labels and head to the open register while a girl worker comes over to check me out. Then I spill my guts when she says "did you find everything you need?". She smiles and says she understands how weddings can be stressful- her sister got engaged 3 months ago and is starting all this. Then she mentions that her sister kind of slowed down planning already because she just found out she's 4 months pregnant.
God sure works in mysterious ways. I smiled and thanked her again for the 7th time for ringing me up after close. But I was secretly thanking her for the story she just shared. Yes, things could be worse. I could me jobless with no $$ to pay for a wedding. I could be really sick, my family could be sick. I could be 4 months pregnant. Instead, my save the dates have UV coating on the back of them that I cannot write on.
Yes, I drove home thanking my lucky stars that this was my biggest worry at that moment. And you know what, the labels will look cool. I will make it work. There, inevitably, will be many more mishaps or things that don't go as planned during the next 4 and a half months. This breakdown is just a prep course I think. But I'll never forget the girl at Office Depot- who has no idea who's small talk story made me realize just how ridiculous I was being. And I'm so thankful for my best friends and Jimmy and family because you know what...they are right. No one will care I used labels. No one will even notice. And if they do....who cares!!!
13 hours ago
B,
ReplyDeleteI stand by my aforementioned recommendation. They will look wonderful. And your hand will appreciate that you made labels, rather than handwriting each one.
Your PR friend